A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

I am going to revisit a topic I wrote on extensively throughout the years but is certainly worthy of reviewing. Sadly, it seems that most d...

As I make my rounds reading different posts, I am always intrigued how so many have different ideas about the most basic of definitions that...

Pride is a dirty word in our society. Few are taught the value of having pride in oneself. Instead, most equate it with being cocky and ar...

How many times have I heard this from someone when their BDSM relationship suddenly goes belly up? It seems that so many envision life with...

The title of this is "decide what you want". This is an important process that few consider when entering this way of life. Too ...

Often there is a great deal of confusion as to which direction to take a BDSM relationship. As a Master, it is my responsibility to determi...

This is a trait that I do not read much about as I travel through the BDSM world. However, it is something that is vitally important to suc...

In the first post on this topic (found here ), I mentioned some of the traits that were necessary to have the proper mindset to succeed as a...

Equality. Fairness. Justice. Sharing. These are concepts many seek to have in life. Unfortunately for them, we fail to see them in nature. ...

Local BDSM is a small community. You will realize this after being in the lifestyle for only a short while. Many seem to think that there ...

A slave is there to serve her Master. It is her job to make his life easier. She is there to support him in whatever he wants to accomplis...

The other day I read that wax play is the most popular form of BDSM play. I do not know if I agree with this assessment completely. When...

Here are the different types of slaves as seen through the eyes of a slave akittenone. This is from her blog . The Window Shopping Slave...