A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

This is a topic that does not get a lot of coverage online. However, this is an extreme part of the BDSM lifestyle. Those who engage in an...

Equality. Fairness. Justice. Sharing. These are concepts many seek to have in life. Unfortunately for them, we fail to see them in nature. ...

The other day I came across a post mentioning the idea of a sub/slave trying to get negative attention. In short, this is childish and imma...

Many feel inclined to spend larges sums of money to get into the BDSM lifestyle. A single trip to your local sex shop will reveal how expen...

I often write how BDSM is about freedom. In my last article , I mentioned how those who choose this way of life do so with courage. There ...

The other day I wrote about the punishment box. For those who missed it, here is a link to that article. This technique is something that...

Many want to enhance their sex life. When people first look at this lifestyle, they are stunned to find out that the price of "toys...

In my book Erotic Humiliation , I wrote about the joy of physical humiliation. While this is a broad category with a wide range of ways to ...

BDSM is a wonderful lifestyle. Yet, it is just that, a lifestyle. For most of us, it is not life. We are still confronted with the same i...

" It is possible to establish a series of activities that all serve to humiliate a sub. As we have shown, everything in this genre is d...

The mindset of a sub is vitally important when employing the technique of erotic humiliation. As mentioned in my book Erotic Humiliation , ...

People in general have difficulty with this concept. I guess the human tendency is to concern ourselves with what others are receiving. We...

It is always a pleasure to see new people adopt this lifestyle. Whether it is a married couple who decides to add some BDSM into their act...

Just as every sub is different, so too is every Dom . We all like different things. What is acceptable to one Dom might be unacceptable to...

Those who do not have a desire to serve will never comprehend one's desire to submit. This is a simple fact. Just as a non-alcoholic w...

The fear of failure is a natural tendency of all human people. This is not something that is monopolized by those in the BDSM world. When ...

Is there such a thing as the right One(one)? I hear many who come into this lifestyle who are seeking that right person. To me, this is a ...

This is a topic which pains me to write but it is something that needs to be said. I consider this sort of a "public service announcem...

Many find great pleasure in experiencing pain.  This is one of the major draws to the BDSM lifestyle.  People who want things to "get ...

If I said it once, I said it 1,000 times "everyone involved in BDSM is an individual and there is no one size fits all". It is as...