A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

All of us encountered a bully at some point in our lives. Whether it was as a kid in the schoolyard or in the workplace, the situation is a...

This is one of the eternal debated within the lifestyle that has raged since one first put a collar on another. Today, I am going to spell ...

Domination is a factor that makes up 50% of a BDSM relationship. It is impossible to have a relationship without having this. There is nob...

Before getting into today's topic, I will issue a disclaimer of sorts. There are some people who have deep-seeded emotional issues whic...

This is something that we see done all the time in the online world. People enter this lifestyle and start chatting with someone only to ...

This post is going to be primarily directed at the dominate ones out there. While this will apply equally to the submissives, I notice that...

As I always try to share from my experience, this post is going to take the perspective of a submissive who found this life and is intereste...

The proverbial cart before the horse applies to the BDSM community. These two go together like bears to honey. People seem to get everyth...

I wrote this post on my social BDSM site and thought it appropriate to share with you all here. If you have comments, please click the lin...

What is a sub/slave truly capable of? I believe finding out is one of the major responsibilities of a Dom/Master. It is important that a s...

How important is it to have a healthy self esteem in the BDSM world? This is a question that I have pondered for a while. I see many who s...

"To thy own self be true" This is one of Shakespeare's most famous line. It is echoed in many corners of society by anyone wh...

There is a lot mentioned about the difference between subs and slaves. Many posts online delve into the levels of exchange of power. I bel...

This is a topic that does not get a lot of coverage online. However, this is an extreme part of the BDSM lifestyle. Those who engage in an...

This is going to be one of the harshest posts that I ever wrote but it is the only way to awaken some up. For the past few years, I have sco...

This is a topic that always generates much controversy. There seems to be a great debate waging among those in the lifestyle if online is a...

What is the appropriate courting period in the traditional world? Obviously the answer varies for each couple. There are some who dated fo...

This is a reality check. I encounter too many people who believe that entering this lifestyle will be the cure-all for everything that is w...

In my book, An Owned Life , I dedicate an entire chapter detailing some of the common causes of failure in a D/s or M/s relationship. This ...

Many feel inclined to spend larges sums of money to get into the BDSM lifestyle. A single trip to your local sex shop will reveal how expen...