A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

This post comes from the perspective of an American. I know the views differ around the world. However, the overall consensus is that we a...

Things certainly changed over the years. The BDSM community once was an underground network of people who lived in secrecy. There was a ti...

This is not really a post that is isolated to the BDSM community. In fact, it is something that I am sharing that pertains more to the pol...

This is a post that some people will disagree with. However, I spent a lot of time on different sites over the last few years. This, coupl...

I wrote a number of posts over the last few months relating to this topic. However, today someone posted some evidence on my social BDSM c...

I wrote this post on my social BDSM site and thought it appropriate to share with you all here. If you have comments, please click the lin...

What is a sub/slave truly capable of? I believe finding out is one of the major responsibilities of a Dom/Master. It is important that a s...

Poly simply means more than one. This is the basic definition that so many refer to when talking about lifestyle choices. However, what do...

This is a topic that is rarely discussed within the BDSM community yet seems to be crucial to success. Few ever really consider the enormou...

Often there is a great deal of confusion as to which direction to take a BDSM relationship. As a Master, it is my responsibility to determi...

How important is it to have a healthy self esteem in the BDSM world? This is a question that I have pondered for a while. I see many who s...

Why did you choose this way of life? Is this something that you actually asked yourself? Or did you just happen upon this way of life and ...

I was in a chat room the other day and witnessed something that I saw many times before. There was myself and a sub in the room when anothe...

There was a thread on the An Owned Life social site that dealt with love and the M/s relationship. This is an interesting topic since ther...

I often see people referring to the importance of trust and how it is crucial that a Dom/Master earn that before one submits. This is somet...

"To thy own self be true" This is one of Shakespeare's most famous line. It is echoed in many corners of society by anyone wh...

I read many posts in my travels dealing with contracts for the BDSM lifestyle; specifically the M/s section. Many seem to feel this takes t...

Much is written about the use of safe words. There are many different ways to approach this aspect of the lifestyle. I believe the particu...

The world is full of critics. This is a fact of life. Any one who has ever written anything original knows there are people out there who ...

A central part of this lifestyle is the separation of power. Whether one is in a D/s or a M/s relationship, the simple fact is that the b...