A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

If there is any single topic which creates controversy within the BDSM community, it is the idea of being a "switch". For whateve...

I would like to thank all those who commented on my post titled " Online Attraction ". If you haven't checked it out, there i...

What is the attraction of being involved in BDSM online? Why do so many partake in it without ever moving into anything that looks like rea...

The mindset necessary to succeed in this way of life is vastly different than what is needed in the traditional world. Many find the transi...

This is one of the most basic qualities that a Dom/Master needs. One who is not confident cannot properly dominate another. It is just tha...

Punishments are a part of the BDSM lifestyle. Whenever one is in the control of another, there will be times when an adjustment in attitude...

There are many who feel there is only one way to live the BDSM lifestyle. This is a conclusion I draw based upon the obtuse posts that peop...

Most seem to miss the essential essence of one's submission. They seem to think that having someone under his/her control is a license ...

This lifestyle goes against all that we are taught in society. There are many ideas that our culture promotes which go contrary to what we ...

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Often I write how sex is not the major component of a M/s or D/s lifestyle. While many relegate BDSM to only their sexual practice, others ...

I write often about questioning your choice to adopt this way of life. I believe that it is best for people to look at the decisions they m...

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I freely admit that I will never win the parent of the year award. When it comes to being a father, I am adequate at best. When my daughte...

I cannot say it any clearer than this: more conflicts seem to arise out of personalities what for any other reason. Personalities often cla...

I wrote a great deal in the past about the differences between real time and online. There was extensive differences mentioned in my book, ...

It is no secret that the D/s and M/s relationships are ones where the equality is not part of the equation. People seem to grasp the concep...