A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

I see questions like this posed all over the Internet: how do I find a Master (slave)? It is always interesting to see a thread on a forum ...

This is a term I hear all the time: "fake". In fact, it is something that I use regularly myself to describe people with whom I e...

This is a post that some people will disagree with. However, I spent a lot of time on different sites over the last few years. This, coupl...

What is a sub/slave truly capable of? I believe finding out is one of the major responsibilities of a Dom/Master. It is important that a s...

Often there is a great deal of confusion as to which direction to take a BDSM relationship. As a Master, it is my responsibility to determi...

Many go seeking this way of life. The search usually begins by visiting different web sites and blogs amassing information along the way. ...

Many talk about living in this lifestyle and being obedient to their Doms/Masters. Sadly, for many, this is all talk. It seems, judging by...

How important is it to have a healthy self esteem in the BDSM world? This is a question that I have pondered for a while. I see many who s...

I was in a chat room the other day and witnessed something that I saw many times before. There was myself and a sub in the room when anothe...

Where does the line between having fun and actually being a mature person take place? I see many who like to "play" online. This...

I often see people referring to the importance of trust and how it is crucial that a Dom/Master earn that before one submits. This is somet...

Many engage in online for fun and fantasy fulfillment. Moving to real time can also be exciting and highly rewarding. However, it is cruci...

I am always amazed at how newer people believe they need to rush headfirst into this way of life. As I travel around the web, I see many wh...

I often mention that BDSM is a lifestyle. The key word here is life . Those who think that BDSM is a way to avoid this basic concept are i...

It seems many have a misplaced idea about mistakes. Again, this seems to be something where common sense leaves the reservation when dealing...

The world is full of critics. This is a fact of life. Any one who has ever written anything original knows there are people out there who ...

So you want to be a slave? Is this what you consider yourself? Well, I got news for you: there is no quicker way to piss a Master off than...

Get in tough with your true self: this is the highest order I believe all of us have. It is sad to see the masses walking through life foll...

The mindset that each party has in an M/s relationship is one of the most crucial factors for success. However, I see little discussed onli...

Have you ever noticed all the neat stuff that is offered on different BDSM websites. You literally could spend a small fortune filling your...