A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

We all have our Masters. This is simply a fact of life. Those who live in the real world understand this simply yet imperative concept. H...

BDSM involves power exchange relationships of some type. This is the essence of the Domination/Submission part of the acronym BDSM. Howeve...

This is a topic that is rarely discussed within the BDSM community yet seems to be crucial to success. Few ever really consider the enormou...

It seems many have a misplaced idea about mistakes. Again, this seems to be something where common sense leaves the reservation when dealing...

There is a lot mentioned about the difference between subs and slaves. Many posts online delve into the levels of exchange of power. I bel...

Often people think that the BDSM lifestyle is an all or none proposition. In reading the writings of many online, and including my own writ...

Many get confused as to the difference between a slave and a sub. It seems that some will view one as better than the other. New people ca...

The Internet is the medium that took the BDSM lifestyle from the underground and enabled it to be more mainstream. While still considered a...

This is a reality check. I encounter too many people who believe that entering this lifestyle will be the cure-all for everything that is w...

In reading online conversations, chats, blogs, etc, I see a great deal written about the need for a sub/slave to trust the one that she choo...

What is the attraction of being involved in BDSM online? Why do so many partake in it without ever moving into anything that looks like rea...

Many think they are free only to later realize that they lived in bondage. Obviously, writing about BDSM would entail mentioning bondage. ...

This is one of the most basic qualities that a Dom/Master needs. One who is not confident cannot properly dominate another. It is just tha...

There are many who seem to confuse being a sub versus being a slave. In my book, An Owned Life, I spend considerable time detailing the dif...

Does anyone remember Joe Isuzu. He was a character in the Isuzu commercials a number of years back. He use to make all kinds of outrageous...

Of late, I am focusing on the Master/slave aspect of the BDSM lifestyle. I am doing this because this tends to be an area where there is a ...

I write a great deal about the importance of following the submission process in my book An Owned Life . To me, this is a crucial area wher...

Most seem to miss the essential essence of one's submission. They seem to think that having someone under his/her control is a license ...

Why do people get involved in BDSM? There are probably as many answers to that question as there are people engaging in it. However, I bel...

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