A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

It is a fact that many use BDSM as a cover so that they can engage in their abusive behavior. Many seem to think that being involved in thi...

I surmise that most people do not understand the possibilities that life, in general, holds. Most people live in the confined boundaries es...

We all know the Internet has created an atmosphere where things are different then they were years ago. One area in particular that changed...

This idea stems from a conversation I had yesterday with a fellow dominant in the lifestyle. It is something that many in the psychological...

The Internet is a central piece of our lives in the 21 st century. This medium has altered how we communicate. BDSM, being involved in the...

Today we will have a bit of a rant about the intelligence level of our community. It is sad but the BDSM world is full of people who have n...

The new year time always bring a sense of optimism and hope. No matter how bad the previous year, it is now in the past (sadly, this is als...

Society is totally and completely full of shit. Everything you were taught is most likely a lie. All your training was done to simply make...

Over the next few weeks, I am going to start taking this blog in a new direction. The BDSM philosophy is core to my existence. However, I ...

"All Men Are Created Equal" Today I am going to write what might well be my most controversial post to date. However, it is a top...

Here is a quick question: Do you have the freedom to be who you want to be? Many would like to think they do but do they really? When you l...

This sounds like a post that should be located on one of those 'woo woo' blogs where people talk about feeling and being good. Whil...

I am continually amazed how most want to jump into a full-fledged TPE relationship within a few minutes of finding this lifestyle. It is ba...

This is going to stray a little outside the bounds of BDSM. I am going to share some observations about what I notice going on this the nor...

The mindset of a slave is so important. It is probably the most crucial aspect that separates one who is able to live in a M/s relationship...

Desire is the starting point for all change. Any self-help program will cover this topic in great detail if it is worth anything. The cent...

There seems to be a great deal of confusion as to what being 24/7 means. Many seem to think that one is at the Master's beck and call 2...

To those of us who are involved in this way of life, this does not seem like such a contradiction. However, to the outsider, this premise m...

What is your image of yourself? If you are like most people, it is probably skewed. I recently watched a movie with Meg Ryan where she was...

The BDSM community is a wide spectrum. It includes people from all walks of life who have varying interests. People enter into the arena wi...