A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World

I am going to revisit a topic I wrote on extensively throughout the years but is certainly worthy of reviewing. Sadly, it seems that most d...

Today I am going to delve into an area that I have yet to mention to much on here but requires further exploration. So many tend to confuse...

It is a fact that many use BDSM as a cover so that they can engage in their abusive behavior. Many seem to think that being involved in thi...

Protocol can be a wonderful thing that really enhances our experience in different areas of life. While it can be called many things, the t...

The Internet has done a wonderful job promoting the imagery associated with the BDSM lifestyle. While much of it is fantasy based, it is sa...

We all know there are many games that are played online. Hell, even in real life people are apt to do things that will make your head spin....

Commitment is a quality that people seem to have lost. There was a time when people were committed to whatever they did. It was an era when...

All of us encountered a bully at some point in our lives. Whether it was as a kid in the schoolyard or in the workplace, the situation is a...

Knowing your limitations is a helpful concept no matter what walk of life one chooses. However, it seems to me that many on the dominant si...

This is a subject that tends to arise on a regular basis. Experience is teaching me to let go and allow others to achieve the results of th...

This is a question many newer people ask. When one finds this way of life, it is interesting to note how radically different the thinking i...

The difference between online and real time is an age old discussion among the BDSM community since the invention of the Internet. Ever sin...

Today I am going to touch upon the social site that I established some time back. This is not a shameless promotion but, rather, a post to ...

How many times have I heard this from someone when their BDSM relationship suddenly goes belly up? It seems that so many envision life with...

I was speaking with a local Master over the weekend. Him and I were 'comparing notes' on the lifestyle. One thing that came up in ...

The new year time always bring a sense of optimism and hope. No matter how bad the previous year, it is now in the past (sadly, this is als...

What does it mean to be dominant? We often hear this term but have you ever considered what it really means? How does one recognize domina...

Over the next few weeks, I am going to start taking this blog in a new direction. The BDSM philosophy is core to my existence. However, I ...