tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239336914160909269.post8305914206497532701..comments2024-03-09T00:32:19.533-08:00Comments on A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World: Understanding A SubmissiveDennis Najeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06173974192478158833noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239336914160909269.post-42999320867815605072015-08-30T22:55:42.927-07:002015-08-30T22:55:42.927-07:00Trust, on every level. Trust is paramount.Trust, on every level. Trust is paramount.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00880649538829653679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239336914160909269.post-52576234998968082262011-05-28T19:39:20.831-07:002011-05-28T19:39:20.831-07:00Oh~ how I want to stand on top of the dining room ...Oh~ how I want to stand on top of the dining room table and read this at the top of my lungs! <br /><br />Everything you said is so very harmonious to my way of perceiving things.<br /><br />This week, my love is home from traveling. We had a moment where he was un-"masterful". Meathead would be applicable. What redeemed him is his ability to see and rapidly backtrack when he blows it. He apologized sincerely and in a way that spoke of genuineness to my own "language".<br /><br />That, in itself, is the key to my own psychology of control. He is human, and in acknowledging it and not strong arming me in to bowing to his meat-headed-ness, I will always and all ways defer to him.<br /><br />When I watch him struggle to choose the high road, I can do nothing but lay down my defenses and follow. I don't want a Dom, or a Master. I want a man who chooses to lead....me. I want this specific man, willing to reach for more than he knew, and willing to expect more than I knew.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com